If one's meal extends into Shabbat before Birkat HaMazon, should one first say Birkat HaMazon and then Kiddush, or first Kiddush and then continue the meal?
Synopsis
The Mechaber presents two approaches: (1) say Birkat HaMazon on one cup then Kiddush on a second, mentioning Shabbat in Birkat HaMazon; (2) spread a cloth, make Kiddush, eat a bit, then say Birkat HaMazon. The Rema rules the custom follows the second approach to avoid disputes arising from the first.
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