What is the required intention (kavanah) during marital relations?
Synopsis
The Mechaber requires that relations be motivated by fulfilling a debt owed to one's wife and fulfilling God's command, not personal pleasure. The Rema and Aruch HaShulchan elaborate on valid and invalid intentions.
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