In a house of mourning, does the mourner include the phrase 'from us' or 'from us and the mourner' in the blessing?
Synopsis
There is discussion about the precise wording for whether those seated with the mourner should say 'from us' or 'from us and from this mourner' regarding the healing of the breach.
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